Hurt me more than it's going to hurt you..... Have you heard that statement before? Parents use it with their children if they have done something that will need to be punished, guys and ladies use this in relationships when they think it's important for the other person to know how much this break up is going to hurt them, friends use this to share with other friends how much they are sorry for what's about to happen....either way we use this phrase there is a similar meaning behind it. Whatever you’re about to say, do or cause the other person, it's going to hurt YOU more than it's going to hurt them....
How do we know this? How do we know that we are going to hurt more then that person we're "hurting" by our actions, words, non actions..?etc. Know what I'm sayin! I believe too many times we take the liberty to already assume we know how the other person is going to feel, think and react. I do this; I assume that I already know how someone is going to react before something happens...this must stop! We are entitled to our own feelings, thoughts, reactions and no one, no one can determine them.
So the next time you feel the need to use the phrase this is going to hurt me more than it's going to hurt you...stop and actually think, is this a true statement? Here's the other side of it...you might actually feel worse than that person, but you don't know that. Control your thoughts, your feelings and how you react...then pray. :)
Love with open arms, give all of you or none of you and take no ones' feelings lightly!
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